Murphy's Law
03-11-2006, 12:43 PM
Hi Everyone,
I just wanted to introduce myself here. I'm guessing this is the right forum.
About me: In August of 2002 I had a little boy who appeared healthy upon delivery. At 8 weeks old he was diagnosed with SMA (Spinal Muscular Atrophy), a very severe form of Muscular Dystrophy. He died at 4 months and 6 days old. SMA is an autosomal recessive disorder. My husband and I both carry the defective copy of the gene. We did not know this until our son was diagnosed.
In March of '03, 3 months after our son died, I got pregnant and miscarried at 6 weeks.
In July of '03, we did a cycle of IVF with donor eggs that did not work.
In September of '03, we did a PGD/IVF cycle that also did not work (and put us in the red by about $25,000!)
In April of '04, I got pregnant and had a cvs test done and we found out that we were having a daughter who was free of SMA. We were elated! She is 14 months old now and doing GREAT!
In August of '05, I got pregnant again and had the cvs test again and we found out that we were having a little boy, who was also free of SMA! Again, we were elated. And then I started bleeding. I bled for 10 weeks. They kept checking me and just said I was bleeding from behind the placenta but they could not figure out how to stop it or why it was happening. When I was 18 weeks pregnant, I began losing more blood than I had lost the previous 10 weeks. I went to the ER for the third time that month. I was losing huge clots. And then my placenta tore away from the uterine wall. I delivered our "healthy" son. He was too young to survive. We had him cremated and are burying him tomorrow, with his older brother.
This has all been very hard for us. We are determined to have another child despite our risks. Our daughter deserves to have a sibling and we very much would like to have one more child.
I have an appointment with my ob/gyn in about 6 weeks. I want her to run some tests for me. After reading here, I would not be at all surprised if I have thrombophilias or MTHFR. I am going to demand that I be tested for that. Those of you who have shared your experiences with MTHFR sound really similar to my own.
Is the test done by a blood draw or is it more invasive? Is there anything else you recommend that I ask to be tested for? Can my ob/gyn order these tests or would I have to see a geneticist again, or possibly a RE? I want to be sure all my bases are covered. We won't TTC again until I have some answers and possibly a treatment. I really don't want to lose another baby.
If you're still reading, thanks for sticking with me! I look forward to getting to know you all!
I just wanted to introduce myself here. I'm guessing this is the right forum.
About me: In August of 2002 I had a little boy who appeared healthy upon delivery. At 8 weeks old he was diagnosed with SMA (Spinal Muscular Atrophy), a very severe form of Muscular Dystrophy. He died at 4 months and 6 days old. SMA is an autosomal recessive disorder. My husband and I both carry the defective copy of the gene. We did not know this until our son was diagnosed.
In March of '03, 3 months after our son died, I got pregnant and miscarried at 6 weeks.
In July of '03, we did a cycle of IVF with donor eggs that did not work.
In September of '03, we did a PGD/IVF cycle that also did not work (and put us in the red by about $25,000!)
In April of '04, I got pregnant and had a cvs test done and we found out that we were having a daughter who was free of SMA. We were elated! She is 14 months old now and doing GREAT!
In August of '05, I got pregnant again and had the cvs test again and we found out that we were having a little boy, who was also free of SMA! Again, we were elated. And then I started bleeding. I bled for 10 weeks. They kept checking me and just said I was bleeding from behind the placenta but they could not figure out how to stop it or why it was happening. When I was 18 weeks pregnant, I began losing more blood than I had lost the previous 10 weeks. I went to the ER for the third time that month. I was losing huge clots. And then my placenta tore away from the uterine wall. I delivered our "healthy" son. He was too young to survive. We had him cremated and are burying him tomorrow, with his older brother.
This has all been very hard for us. We are determined to have another child despite our risks. Our daughter deserves to have a sibling and we very much would like to have one more child.
I have an appointment with my ob/gyn in about 6 weeks. I want her to run some tests for me. After reading here, I would not be at all surprised if I have thrombophilias or MTHFR. I am going to demand that I be tested for that. Those of you who have shared your experiences with MTHFR sound really similar to my own.
Is the test done by a blood draw or is it more invasive? Is there anything else you recommend that I ask to be tested for? Can my ob/gyn order these tests or would I have to see a geneticist again, or possibly a RE? I want to be sure all my bases are covered. We won't TTC again until I have some answers and possibly a treatment. I really don't want to lose another baby.
If you're still reading, thanks for sticking with me! I look forward to getting to know you all!